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The bad side of us
When we go out, meet others, speak publicly, we show the best part of who we are. We rarely get to know the bad side of someone, unless we sleep with him/her. Even then, it might take us time to start showing how we sometimes truly feel and how we would actually act sometimes. So finally after four hundred nights together, we finally show the worse of us. It seems wrong, and if not embraced in a loving way, as we will do right here, it can end relationships as we sometimes hardly access loving teachings from ancestors that can guide us in not taking it the wrong way. Here we are getting intimate and so we will embrace what just happened and understand that this mean ass motherfucker is also us.
Creating a sacred space in our relationships is crucial so that we can speak about this without getting worked up. Inside of this space, we must say that this being will also be accepted, and only by means of that can we start taking some of the meanness and ugliness out. Today invites us to the knowledge and the wisdom of allowing this bad side to show and exist, as it is the only way that it can grow into being a more loving and understanding guy/gal. This day must also invite us to be more tolerant and respectful to others when they are showing bad behavior. Only through love and integration, does anything grow.